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Hi Gilbert My husband will be serving me a divorce paper sometime next week. He initiated this because he is having an affair [...]
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Hi Gilbert, While googling, I chanced upon your blog, read some stories and got some information here [...]
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Hi Gilbert, A very good day to you. I came across your website while looking for an online site [...]
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How to Recover from an Affair »
How to Recover from an Affair Edited byDanine Manette and 14 others Realize that you are in shock. Initially, this is the phase where you are simply in [Read More]
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Reader's mail
Estrangled woman finding it hard to move on after her divorce
Hi Gilbert, Thanks so much for your prompt reply. I'm not even sure where to begin, so excuse me for the long story. I was married sometime in 1997 and during my confinement month in 1999, found some inappropriate smses in my husband's hp. When I queried him about them, he said that they were just pranks from his colleagues. About a year [...]
Husband filing for divorce on wife with a drinking issue and affair
Hi Gilbert I'm currently facing sleepless night... I could be drinking till I knock out but after 2 hours, I’ll be up again... waking up in the middle of the night staring at the window till the sun rises... plus I seem to be losing my appetite.... I haven't been eating much these few days... finding it hard to accept all that is happening [...]
Woman in transition trying to recover and move on
Dear Gilbert, I hope you had happy holidays and Happy 2012 to you :) Im sorry - its been so long since my last correspondence. A lot has happened and I've been trying to put the pieces back together- not of my marriage but of my life. Unfortunately, things took a turn for the worst since we last emailed. On December 1st, when I was [...]
Divorced woman felt betrayed in a failed rebound relationship
Dear Gilbert, I am really glad to see your blog. I m a divorcee with 2 kids. I initiated the divorce and many others felt that I deserved what I experienced now. Even my siblings won’t talk to me now. My husband was uninvolved in our relationship but he acted nice in front of friends and family. Once alone, he was not there for [...]
“The truth is, I harboured thoughts of suicide whenever I’m lonely.”
Hi Gilbert, I found your website earlier on. I know you are not able to help, but anyway I’ll just write to you, hoping it will release some of my tensions. Probably, I can start with what’s worrying me these few years. I feel that my life is very miserable since I got married in 2004 – we always had issues with [...]
Legal questions from man divorcing his Malaysian wife
Today , I went to my wife's place to see my kids, I thought I can see my wife and hope that we can have a heart to heart talk, but I was disappointed and sad because she doesn't want to see me. Her Mum told me that she is insisting on having a divorce and asked me to prepare the legal letter from my side... Ken: I did nothing wrong for [...]
Married woman feeling tortured after husband walked out
Hi Gilbert, I saw your email addresses on steadymarriages.com and I decided to email right away because I’m having a very difficult time coping with the fact that my husband left me 2 weeks ago, He told me in person that he will be filing divorce papers and has no intention to reconcile our marriage. I feel truly devastated, alone and [...]
Divorced woman seeking advice on maintenance issue
Hi Gilbert,I would like to have some advice regarding my case. I am with my ex husband since year 2003 and we were married in 2007. We just had a ROM ceremony and that is it. Over the years he had never suggested a customary wedding, nor plan to go for our wedding photography shoot. Seriously my family and friends weren't supportive over [...]
Divorce, broke, jobless and depressed…
Hi Gilbert, I came across your steadymarriages blog by accident and was relieved to find something like that. Was hoping if you can offer me some advice. Sorry in advance if this email is too long-winded. I was divorced with my ex-wife in 2008. At that point I was already in financial difficulty due to poor financial management and high [...]
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