I am Tracy here and feeling very very depressed over my husband’s consistent betrayal. We have been married for almost 35 years and in all these years, its either he is having affairs with divorcees or with married women. He also visited prostitutes in Geylang and do group sex.
During the earlier years, he also often indulged in viewing pornography and doing online sex talks with those women over internet. He even got the guts to tell those women that as long the husband returns home, its ok to sleep with any women outside i.e one night stand is no problem to him.
Now that we are old, I am 60 and he is 62, he keep making unpleasant remarks about me and say hurting things such as I cannot give him sex anymore, so he needs to find younger women outside.
Lately, for the past half year or so he is very engrossed with Whatsapp chatting, always using his hp to do messaging.
He used to work part-time, (3 and half days) but now always say he need to work during his days off. Suspect he is seeing women outside for sex…don’t known whether it is an affair or paid sex.
I have retired a number of years ago due to some health issues. Now I feel very lonely because I lost all contact with most of my ex colleague. Also I did not have any friends to talk to….even my only sister also faces the same problem with her husband. I have keep all these unhappiness bottled inside me for a long long time. I desperately need to talk to someone to give me some guidance to what I should do…if not I think I would go insane. I also suffer from severe insomnia…can don’t sleep the whole night for 3 to 4 nights in a row.
I would prefer talking on the phone first because I worry I cannot control myself and start crying n screaming when face with the counsellor. Kindly please help me, I am desperate. I would pay even for telephone counselling.