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Lee Wei Ling: Difficult to accept a loved one’s suffering

Lee Wei Ling: Difficult to accept a loved one’s suffering

Gambling addiction has destroyed our marriage

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Hi Gilbert My divorce is already at the final stage and we now in the process of  allocating our assets.  Yes [...]


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Lee Wei Ling: Difficult to accept a loved one’s suffering Lee Wei Ling: Difficult to »

Aug 29, 2010 Difficult to accept a loved one's suffering Feeling compassion with a detachment is wise, [...]


Gambling addiction has destroyed our marriage Gambling addiction has »

Hi Gilbert My divorce is already at the final stage and we now in the process of  allocating [...]


Analysts: Rules will rein in HDB market (ST 31 Aug) Analysts: Rules will rein in »

Aug 31, 2010 new property rules Analysts: Rules will rein in HDB market Private home-owners and [...]


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Ten Things Women Love About Men »

Ten Things Women Love About Men

By ahostagesituation I love a good man. I have had good men as friends, boyfriends, and I was reared by one. As it turns out, the good women in my [Read More]

Dating after divorce

Has technology made dating impossible for round two daters? Has technology made »

Has technology made dating impossible for round two daters? Sydney Weekend [...]


14 Differences Between Japanese and Chinese Women (Chinasmack) 14 Differences »

  On China.com and cn.MSN.com: Japanese women vs. Chinese women: A little mean, [...]


How to tell if a guy likes you – Five signs he’s interested (articlesbase.com) How to tell if a »

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were [...]


Children of divorce

Parental Alienation »

Parental Alienation

Wee ChengAugust 1, 2010 at 5:44pm Subject: A letter from a Singapore young man Hi everyone, Some of you might have seen this letter. It is written by a local young man who has been put through the cruel campaign of Parental Alienation as a child, and how he managed to [Read More]

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Recovery After Divorce

Has technology made dating impossible for round two daters?

Has technology made dating impossible for round two daters?

Has technology made dating impossible for round two daters? Sydney Weekend Herald August 27, 2010 Dear CityKat, I’m a recently divorced dude, 34, good shape, etc.  I have started dating a chick in her 20s and am getting heaps of sexts, naked photos of her from email, etc. It’s very different to the ‘dating game’ I left [...]

Divorced woman suffering from child alienation

Divorced woman suffering from child alienation

Dear Gilbert,   I thank God that I found  this website and I hope that you  can  help me here. Presently, my ex and I are in the midst of  a divorce and we are  settling our  anxilliary matters and custody of children. I am very concerned  for  my children. I have a  10-year-old old girl and a 14- year- old boy (boy is from my [...]

Good grief, grieving may not be all bad

Good grief, grieving may not be all bad

Aug 17, 2010 Good grief, grieving may not be all bad By Allen Frances A STARTLING suggestion is buried in the fine print describing proposed changes for the fifth edition of the Diagnostic And Statistical Manual Of Mental Disorders - perhaps better known as the DSM-5, the book that will set the new boundary between mental disorder and [...]

Survey Request from Final Year Psychology Student

Survey Request from Final Year Psychology Student

  From: Renee Yap <yongmei@mediacorp.com.sg> Subject: Hi! This is Renee from FM 972 To: gilbert@steadymarriages.com Received: Thursday, 12 August, 2010, 3:11 PM I'm a DJ from Love 972 and i'm currently in my final year BSc (Honours) Psychology. I'm doing a final project on "Forgiveness in Marriage will affect marital quality". I [...]

20 Ways to Change the World

20 Ways to Change the World

20 Ways to Change the World   Here are twenty things that you can do to change people’s lives, yourself, and the world. These are in no particular order. 1 – Adopt – Adopting someone is one of the greatest things you can do. You’ll change your life and someone else’s. Adopt a baby, a child, or a teen. By being adopted they’ll [...]

His view, her view of split do not match

His view, her view of split do not match

His view, her view of split do not match ADELE HORIN July 5, 2010/The Sydney Morning Herald SEPARATED couples often see their relationship in starkly different ways and disagree on key aspects - from the level of conflict between them to the number of nights children spend in each parent's house, a study shows. In some cases, one [...]

Break-ups leave women poorer but men more fragile

Break-ups leave women poorer but men more fragile

Break-ups leave women poorer but men more fragile ADELE HORIN The Sydney Morning Herald July 7, 2010 Women are much poorer than men after a marriage breakdown but men are much lonelier, sadder and their mental health is more fragile immediately after, a big study reveals. Within fours years, however, men have begun to recover [...]

Late-life divorce on the rise

Late-life divorce on the rise

Late-life divorce on the rise June 7, 2010 The Sydney Morning Herald News that Al and Tipper Gore were separating after 40 years came as a shock - but divorce rates among mature couples are rocketing, finds Julia Llewellyn Smith. Nicola Ellis seemed to be on the verge of the golden years. At 60, she was the mother of six children [...]

For better not worse

For better not worse

For better not worse SHEBA WHEELER, COURTESY OF SUNDAY LIFE July 5, 2010 Life in the 21st century is putting more strain on marriages than ever. Sheba Wheeler speaks to the experts on how to ease the load. What with the military planning, financially crippling outlays and generally enormous importance we accord modern weddings, it's [...]

Woman regretful about her broken marriage

Woman regretful about her broken marriage

Hi Gilbert, I don’t know where to start…I have ruined my marriage with my own hands, my own mind. When I have regained my consciousness and correct state of mind, it’s too late.  Everything has changed and cannot be undone now. The guilt in me stays on till now and I can’t forgive myself at all. Let me elaborate more here. Five [...]

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