Thanks for asking and the concern.
Unfortunately, divorce is still on. I don’t blame my wife as to whether she really did betray me or not (anyway there’s no way to prove or to find out unless I confront that guy. It would be very stupid of me to do so now).
I feel that, as a husband, I have to bear the biggest accountability of the failure of my marriage. So to make her happy and the last good thing I could do now – I have to let her go. This makes both of us feel better and still could remain as friends in the future. Also good for the children too.
Anyway, I feel better now after talking to some of my friends. Though still feel a bit lost but I have started planning for my future – in terms of income and retirement.
For sure, I have learned the biggest and painful lesson in my life. If there is another opportunity of having a second wife in the future, it would definitely be for the much better as by then I will know how to love a woman.
Well, life is all about learning. Luckily life is short, and won’t be long we will be back to HIM again.