Woman involved in a violent relationship ending her marriage

Number of View: 527 We fought constantly about his filth and untidyness and the division of household chores, among other issues. He had emotionally vacated the marriage and I also discovered he was involved with his colleague, to whom he would confide his woes (including calling me names) and secretly date, plus show care, assistance and concern towards. On one occasion when we were fighting about his cheating, he physically hurt me: flipped me off the bed with such force that I somersaulted and landed oddly on my back on the floor, restrained my hands when I tried to call the police and slapped me in the face so hard that I instantly fell to my knees from a standing position. Emotionally, I was devastated as I never imagined that he could lay hands on me. After the above incident, I moved out of our HDB flat that very same night, to live with my parents but returned to the marital home about 1-2 months later, with the intention of working at the marriage Out of depression and loneliness, I had found joy again through secretly seeing another man and my husband became suspicious after a while. On one night, …

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Husband letting wife go in a painful divorce and moving on

Number of View: 799 Hi Gilbert, Thanks for asking and the concern. Unfortunately, divorce is still on.  I don’t blame my wife as to whether she really did betray me or not (anyway there’s no way to prove or to find out unless I confront that guy. It would be very stupid of me to do so now). I feel that, as a husband, I have to bear the biggest accountability of the failure of my marriage.  So to make her happy and the last good thing I could do now – I have to let her go.  This makes both of us feel better and still could remain as friends in the future.  Also good for the children too. Anyway, I feel better now after talking to some of my friends. Though still feel a bit lost but I have started planning for my future  – in terms of income and retirement. For sure, I have learned the biggest and painful lesson in my life.  If there is another opportunity of having a second wife in the future, it would definitely be for the much better as by then I will know how to love a woman. Well, life …

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