Mum with young child feeling anxious and lost before a impending divorce

Number of View: 985 Hi Gilbert Thank you for your reply. Would it be ok if I asked a few more questions? At this moment, I still feel so lost and quite honestly scared. If I’m not a working mother right now, is there any chance my husband can last minute twist his words and not want to give me custody of my daughter? I seriously doubt he would be agreeable to me not refunding his CPF. How does it work if I do not refund his CPF upon a divorce? Does that mean, the CPF portion will auto be …

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Wife receives SMS text on divorce from husband and seeking assistance

Number of View: 1011 My husband send me a SMS stating that he is preparing to file for a divorce with me and will inform me the date to go to the lawyer firm. I am agreeable to the divorce – would I need to engage a lawyer? Gilbert: Yes it will be advisable if you approach a lawyer for legal advice. You can also approach Legal Aid for the poor but your income must be below $1500/month and below. There is a one-off minimal payment of a few hundred if I am not wrong. Getting a lawyer will ensure …

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Woman struggling with a divorce and seeking support group assistance

Number of View: 1028 Hi Gilbert I am in the process of going through a divorce. As both my boys are taking the PSLE this year, my soon to be ex-hubby and me are aligned to keep it under wraps and not “announced” till they complete this critical phase of their educational journey. As such we are trying to still act as normal at home, in front of my kids and my parents. Nobody in my family knows at all. Hence it is quite a struggle for me especially when it’s a case of him committing adultery and he has …

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