Remarried man seeking assistance on downward variation of $1000 maintenance

Number of View: 1070 Dear Mr. Gilbert, Hope that you take your time to understand the situation that I am facing for the past years. Paying a maintenance is part of my responsible but putting it all on me is just not fair. I have another family to support and each time I seek for variation it just does not work as my ex-wife claims that she is not working. She is being unreasonable enough each time we go to court. I am at her mercy Mr. Gilbert, I do not know what to do and it is very stressful …

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Dating After Divorce

Number of View: 444 Dating After Divorce Andre Cross Celibacy is one thing after a long relationship, but jumping back into the dating game after having been to the altar is quite another. A few important guidelines should be followed in order to achieve a successful return to the world of dating and mating. You need not follow them to the tee, but they will help make the transition easier. You have to get your dating muscle in shape by preparing during the last stages of your divorce, for when you’re finally single and getting into your first relationship. last …

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How to Deal With The Other Man or Other Woman

Number of View: 528 In general, society looks at the other man or other woman as being the responsible party in an affair. It’s understandable that they become the target for the rage and anger the deceived spouse feels. Blaming the them keeps us from having to take responsibility for the problems in the marriage and our own feelings, so we like to pretend that if it hadn’t been for that other person there would have never been an affair. Problem is, there would have been, it just would have been a different “other” person. How you handle the fact …

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How to handle an extramarital affair

Number of View: 796How to handle an extramarital affair  By John Ng | 20/02/2013 When your other half strays from the relationship and looks elsewhere for emotional or physical needs, you might choose to end the relationship immediately or choose to remain in it. Either way, a marital affair outside has crippling effects that can be felt by both parties for some time. The emotional trauma guts your soul and more often than not, the unintentional hurt affects your kids too. So what is an affair anyway? No, that drunken debauchery from your brother’s Christmas party does not count (Unless …

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Woman caught in a betrayed marriage writing to all third parties

Number of View: 2186 After reading through all the stories here, one thing that strikes me is the large proportion of husbands being unfaithful to the marriage. The story of each betrayed wife maybe different [or similar to a certain extent] but  one thing is for sure – the hurt and pain brought upon the wives and family is immersed in every story. Likewise, I am one of them and I am still in a betrayed marriage [for past one and a half year]. From a very different perspective, I would like to plead to any single [especially woman] who …

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When Your Marriage Is Over

Number of View: 558 When Your Marriage Is Over By: Vivian Vega (View Profile)  When your marriage is over, your world feels like it’s been turned upside down. One moment your life is filled with love and affection, caring and being supportive for one another, waking up each day with a smile on your face, ready to face the world … and then, boom! A bomb is dropped in your life suddenly, like a glass vase falling off your shelf. Pieces everywhere, emotions intensely prevalent and then, you are at a loss, not knowing exactly caused this to occur. After twelve years of marriage, I began …

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