Depressed father seeking advice on divorce proceedings

Number of View: 1279 Dear Gilbert, My wife and I have being living in the same house but slept separately for more than 5 years due to some reasons. My wife bought a new house (I was not aware at all) about 2 years ago. In late 2016, she shifted with the children to the new house. And not long after CNY, she called me that she wanted a divorce for some “reasons”.  I refused and tried to talk to her but she always turned aggressive on the phone and refused to talk and asked me to talk her lawyer. …

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10 Signs He Is Interested in You

Number of View: 423 There he is, the man of your dreams. He’s sitting across from you at the coffee shop or standing at the opposite side of the bar. His eyes meet yours, a quick glance, and then it’s back to his drink. Was he giving you a signal? It’s not easy to decipher the mind of the modern male, but learning to decode what his nonverbal communication truly means is an invaluable asset in the game of love. So in order to be sure you’re reading him right, look out for the following 10 signs. Leaning into Love: …

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Dr Phil: Life after divorce

Number of View: 450 Life after Divorce Divorce is a major life change that can leave a person reeling. Suddenly being on your own to deal with issues such as money, children, career changes and downsizing the family home can seem overwhelming. Dr. Phil and Libby Gill, author of the book Traveling Hopefully: How to Lose Your Family Baggage and Jumpstart Your Life offer advice on how to begin to live life after divorce. If you’re having trouble letting go: • There is life after this marriage As hard as it is to believe right now, one day this marriage …

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Wife enquiring on legal help to file for divorce based on adultery

Number of View: 1153 Hi Gilbert, I chanced upon your site when I am researching on divorce. I will like to seek any legal advice, if possible. My husband and I were married for many years, with two kids. Recently, I discovered smses detailing him making bookings for prostitutes. As I could not send the messages directly to my HP, I took photos of the smses. Subsequently, I watsapp the images to my hub to confront him, he replied with “What do you want?” In addition, we have been sleeping separately (in different rooms) in the same house since few years …

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How To Heal the Pain of Divorce

Number of View: 841 By Cathy Meyer, About.com Guide Everyone who goes through a divorce experiences pain and grief, but some may be more profoundly affected. Some do not cope as well as others. Divorce can be a traumatic experience and healing from it takes time. There are some ways you can help yourself move through the healing process. Difficulty: Hard Time Required: Depends on the person Here’s How: Develop a support system. Find those friends and family who will be there to see you through the times when you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to listen. …

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