Newly-married woman facing eventual divorce from a cheating spouse

Number of View: 1885 Hi, Stumbled upon your website while searching for a support group where I can fit in, I know I don’t quite fit the category just yet. But my husband is having an affair and has repeatedly expressed his wish to leave/divorce me for her. Even though he has yet to file for divorce, I think there is unlikely anything I can do to avoid that eventuality. I am ashamed to face my family, I fear that I have put too much into my relationship all these years at the expense of my family. The failure of …

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New family harassed by Malaysian ex-wife in bitter divorce

Number of View: 1267 Greetings to you sir. I came across your site Steady Marriages and find it very helpful and hopeful. We would like to ask for your kind advice quite urgently as we are struggling to free ourselves from this trouble that has been dragging and affecting our lives pretty badly since 2013. As we are still just beginning to stand on our own feet i.e getting a stable permanent job, we are still nowhere able to afford a lawyer to fight against a case of an ex-wife who is only a foreign PR and has custody of …

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Recently-divorced mum worries about losing her HDB flat and feeling depressed

Number of View: 1548 Hi Gilbert, I am feeling so hopeless in my current situation. I have been diagnosed with major depression this year.  I need to go for regular blood test and on long-term medication for rheumatoid arthritis. I had a total thyroidectomy 2 years ago which I need to be on long term medication too after the surgery. I am a divorced woman with a 13-year-old son. Currently living in Punggol. My flat is still a joint tenancy with my ex-spouse. I have been trying to appeal for waiver of credit assessment for my HLE in order to …

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Should You Change Your Sexual Habits for Your Partner?

Number of View: 401 Navigating the complexities of sex and relationships     by Amy Muise, Ph.D Should You Change Your Sexual Habits for Your Partner?       How sexual compromise can enhance relationship satisfaction Published on January 25, 2013 by Amy Muise, Ph.D in The Passion Paradox Over the course of a romantic relationship, there are bound to be times when your sexual interests diverge from your partner’s interests. Perhaps you enjoy having sex at night, but your partner prefers morning sex. Maybe you desire sex about once or twice a week, but your partner would like to have sex once …

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