Jobless man made homeless and penniless by court’s decision after divorce

Number of View: 997First of all, tell us abit about yourself – how long were you married and any kids? Twenty one  years of marriage with 3 kids –  girl – 19 , boy – 16   and another boy – 14.  I am fifty years old now. I was a financial advisor  for the last 20 years before quitting recently to focus on my divorce case. I am also acting on my own defence  due to a lack of cash to get a lawyer.  What was the court’s decision for visitation rights after the divorce? The Court order allows me …

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How to tell if a guy likes you – Five signs he’s interested (articlesbase.com)

Number of View: 1662 How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy …

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Desperate ex-husband enquiring on lower payment of monthly maintenance order

Number of View: 822 Hi Gilbert, Recently, I went to receive the Family court order that I need to pay the following lump sum of monthly maintenance to my ex-wife:- 2 Children =$500 Wife =$100 House Utilities =$150-200 House rent =$44 Conservative Charge =$88 House and internet service $100 And next year school fees for my 2nd child =$250-280 Currently I am paying:- 1 bike =$527 1 bike =$350 1 Malaysian car – $300 1st wife maintenance – $300 Singtel hp =$100 Singtel Hp =$100 Currently I am not staying with her and my salary is only $2400. Now I …

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Divorced man checking on reducing maintenance payment to ex-wife

Number of View: 1330 Hi Gilbert, First of all,  I would like to thank you for setting up http://www.steadymarriages.com for people like us who are divorced and need emotional support. My scenario:- Married for 5 years. Officially divorced in June this year; no kids. Mutual agreement that I pay my wife $30,000 (lump sum) and subsequent monthly maintenance of $250. Currently:- My wife is living in Malaysia (JB) and is travelling to and fro  Singapore for work. My finances are tighter (no OT and currently studying a part time course) Basic less than 2k. I would like to reduce the …

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The 10 Most Important Things In Life I Learned From Talking To Old People

Number of View: 791 I’m a relatively young man. I don’t consider myself wise but I do pay attention more than most people my age. Obviously none of you online know me, but I am what you call mouthy. I love to tell stories, jokes, and in general my life is an open book. I love to have fun and tell those around me exactly what I’m thinking. Believe it or not when I am not talking I am doing something even more important, listening. I truly enjoy a good conversation and especially with those older. I give speeches (mostly …

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25-year-old filing for divorce and worried about rental cost

Number of View: 610 Hi Gilbert I’m a Singaporean Chinese citizen, 25 years old. I’ve been deciding whether to file for a divorce. And finally made up my mind today. And the answer from my heart is Yes, I should. I’ve been feeling depressed and miserable for months. But I’m currently studying part time diploma, and my full time job is pending confirmation (still under probation). I’ve asked my boss whether I can work in another part time job and he said it’s better not to. I can’t live with my parents now as they have already rented out my …

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