Newly-divorced man enquiring on issues leading to housing after interim judgement

Number of View: 491 Hi Gilbert I am not clear about the legal procedures. I decided not to contest the divorce initiated by my wife and signed the document before a registrar. I received the lawyer’s letter informing me that. the judge will look at the case to make an interim judgement. My wife, me and the lawyer do not need to be present. My question is what comes after that? In the document, I agree to sell my share of the HDB flat to her. CPF monies plus interest accrued will be paid back to my CPF account. My wife also mentioned that she wants me to leave the matrimonial home on a specific date. Does she have a legal right to force me to leave or is it her own whim and fancy? Regards James ***** Hi James I am not a lawyer but merely a counsellor. I know if you sell you home back to your wife you are no longer the co-owner of the flat. She has the legal right to ask you to leave. It has to be after  after the pronouncement  of interim judgement. Please check with your lawyer for the exact details as …

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Father concerned about child alienation tactics employed by wife

Number of View: 481 Dear Gilbert, I came across steadymarriages website by chance after viewing other sites that may shed some light on my legal rights as a father of two who is separated and locked out of his matrimonial home for some two and a half years. I have done all I can to reconcile with my wife but she refuses. The overall view is she is alienating me from our children and reducing contact with them. I got over the emotional distress with the support of my church and the Pastor. I am seeking legal advice since has emailed me asking to contest or uncontest writ for divorce. I would like to know if I should apply to the courts for access to our home or wait until it goes to court? My wife has reduced the contact time for seeing our children to one hour a week for lunch on a Saturday and keeps using the children as an excuse they don’t want to see their father. If this come to court this current access to kids dictated by my wife may be continued by the courts. Can I make an appointment to come and meet you …

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