Woman feared for her family’s safety due to a abusive husband

Number of View: 429 Dear Gilbert, Thank you for providing a website and forum for the divorcing and divorced. We need more like this avenues around. This year, I filed for a divorce with my spouse. He has been abusive towards, myself and our two young children, PPO was granted to us, against him. At first, he agreed to sign divorce papers, then he deployed delay tactics on the day itself, and has refused to maintain any form of communication with me. I paid for the lawyer’s fee in full and because of a clause that the lawyer put in, …

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10 myths about sexless marriage

Number of View: 763 Myths About Sexless Marriage Sexless couples rarely or never have sex. Some sexless couples still occasionally have sex. For instance, one couple had sex almost every day when first married, and could hardly keep their hands off each other. After several years, they settled into a pattern of sex once or twice a month. Sometimes they went three or four months without sex, and when they had sex it was passionless and mechanical. Although they usually both had orgasms, there was no eroticism, passion, kindness, or generosity to it. As far as they were concerned, their …

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Coping with Infidelity: How Do Affairs Begin?

Number of View: 451Introduction: The most commonly asked question I receive is about infidelity. That’s because affairs are so common in marriage. You or your spouse are more likely to have an affair than you are to divorce. And your chances of divorce are already 50-50. An affair is devastating to almost everyone involved. It’s one of the most painful experiences that the jilted spouse will ever be forced to endure, and it is also very painful for the children. Friends and members of the extended family are usually hurt as well. But what most people don’t realize is that …

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Father suffers from child alienation and fights for sole custody of his two sons

Number of View: 361 Dear readers, I have a problem too. I am a Muslim. I have two kids. The eldest is a 8-year-old boy. He doesn’t t want to stay with the mother. Because he often gets beaten by her boyfriend’s mum. The custody for both kids is with the mum under sole custody. The longest period I was not able to see him was one year. My ex-wife stays in Malaysia and my son commutes by a chartered bus to school everyday. One fine day he ran away from the school bus and he took his own bus …

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