Thoughts of a father going through a marital dissolution

Number of View: 365 I have been constantly reviewing the situation inside my head. We have to understand clearly that there are 2 human beings who have differing characters and the differences can’t be bridged anymore. Yes, everything can only be solved by forgiving and giving in but at what cost? To realize the regret few years down the road? To a certain extent, I have regretted why I didn’t make the decision sooner and have been giving and moving forward too often in the past. Moving forward for the sake of the psychological and emotional growth of  the child. …

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Taxi driver expressed unhappiness at miscellaneous billings by ex-wife after divorce

Number of View: 281 Hey Gilbert, I accidentally chance on your blog and I have a question about my divorce which I am very puzzled and decided to drop you an email to see if you have any advice for me. I was divorced two years back and was uncontested. I have 2 kids and court ruled $400 for kids’ maintenance. Also I was asked to sign for agreeing to pay for kids’ education and Chinese New Year clothing – which I did sign off at the law firm. I have been paying promptly for the maintenance each month. However, …

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Wife frustrated over irresponsible husband who has a alternative lifestyle

Number of View: 349 Hi Gilbert It wasn’t purely because of his past. Back then he wasn’t providing financially for not a month or two but close to a year, job hop, didn’t help me with the baby (baby was 4 months then) and always online with the gays either on msn or on gay chatrooms. He even went back to his parents place and lied compulsively that he was working late … He was at that time, still active with gays although he claimed that he stopped having sex with them after marriage. But he did give his mobile …

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