Woman legally married but never stay together with husband

Number of View: 368 Hi Gilbert, How does a woman cope after a divorce? I have been legally married and had my customary marriage but my husband has never wanted to live together with me. Due to some misunderstandings on his birthday and our wedding anniversary, we stop talking all of  a sudden. I tried to ask him for reunion dinner but he rejected. I was able to sweep this unhappiness under the carpet and get on with my daily activities for 7 months. But for some reason I have to contact him for work and I realise he is …

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Man’s horrible experience with China ex-wife regarding child access

Number of View: 352 Hi Gilbert Thank you for reply. I’m  married to a Chinese woman who took Singapore citizenship about 10 years ago. When our daughter was born in 2011 my wife insists her parents from China to help us with the child raising. However they didn’t speak English and I couldn’t speak Mandarin. Things where good until they start to get very possessive and claim more rights to my child which my wife supports and ask me to do it out of respect to them. I was very a hands-on father and it was very difficult to let …

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Woman concerned about gay ex-husband’s access to their only son

Number of View: 372Hi Gilbert When my baby was 4 months old, my ex husband would spend a lot of time on his personal laptop. He always said he needed time for himself. He would stay up late and wake up late. He was also a compulsive liar and hardly help me with the baby. Sometimes he would even lie that he was working late and staying overnight at his office but the fact was he was sleeping over at his parents’ place. One day when he was out, I checked his laptop. I knew his Facebook password and he …

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