Broke, unemployed and homeless woman trapped in a unhappy marriage

Number of View: 570 Hello Gilbert, I’ve rewritten this email a few times now. I don’t really know what to say. I understand that my husband doesn’t want to have anything to do with me any more. I’m broke, unemployed and homeless. And unhealthy. I have some good days and some bad days. I’m lonely. I miss the intimacy of sex and spooning. On good days I plan for the future. I look at job postings but I rarely send out resumes. I contact attractive boys for a romp, then postpone meeting them. I make plans to learn the guitar, …

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Mother of two kids contemplating divorce and worried about custody and maintenance

Number of View: 505 Dear Gilbert, My husband is continuously having affair and fun for the past few years. I keep acting blur though sometimes I did flare up and hurt each other with words. I have two kids, boy – 8 and girl – 11 years. Finally he wanted out and ask me to agree to the divorce with his conditions. He mentioned that since I need to work full time, the kids can stay at his place with his mum till I finished work and pick them up. I said I will resign and find a job with …

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