Woman with newborn baby contemplating divorce due to unsupportive husband

Number of View: 274 Hi Gilbert I’m not sure where to begin or if your group is suitable for my situation. But I’m really at a loss right now and at a very dark point in my life. Hope to get some guidance from you. I’m currently contemplating divorce with my husband. We have a 7-weeks-old newborn baby. But things have gotten really bad since our baby’s arrival. He’s become a totally different person or should I say he has shown his true colours. I received no support from him emotionally and even financially since baby arrived. Though he still …

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Advice from Singaporean woman married to Caucasian for 20 years

Number of View: 316 Hi! I am a Singaporean woman married to a Caucasian for 20 years with 2 kids, living abroad. Just wanted to offer some encouragement. Of course, marriages are not perfect since we aren’t married to God but a mere mortal man. So flaws are part of us who we humans are. I love my husband as I know he does me but we too have our own complaints about one another. If you are on solid grounds when it comes to love… Financial, who spend how much and who wants what is but that barrier (even …

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Advice for woman undergoing divorce: “Nobody can help you except yourself!”

Number of View: 373 Hi Jean I was like you and at that time, my 2 girls were Primary 4 and 5. I didn’t want them to feel the hurt and yet am feeling the pain and I have no where to turn to. So, I did what a mother needs to do – I look after them and upkeep the house…yes, upkeep…I paid for everything with every penny I earn even to the extend of  owing Credit Cards debts. It was easy to get instant cash anytime with Credit Cards and I have a lot of those “instances” that …

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