Married mum checking on divorce proceedings against unsupportive husband

Number of View: 404 Hi, I am considering a divorce with my husband though we  have been married for a few years only. We have 2 young kids and I wish to have custody of both. The reason for our divorce is that he has been neglecting the family by spending all his time and attention on his business. As he gets stressed, he will vent anger on me occasionally over small matters. He always stay out late, citing work as his reason, and even on Sunday, he will lock himself in the room to work while asking me to take care of the older child. When I was expecting the older child, I found out that he has been unfaithful to me by exchanging text messages with women he met at KTVs while socialising for business as he puts it. I find it very hard to believe him again after what has happened but decided to give him a second chance for the sake of our child though every now and then I get very paranoid wondering what he is up to. He promised to change but largely he still takes things for granted these days and forgot all …

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Newly-divorced jobless mum of a 6-year-old child struggling to cope with marital dissolution

Number of View: 298 Hi all, I have been divorced for nearly a year already. However, the recovery process seems to take forever. It’s like you thought that you are able to move on n your life already and then some court matters surface, and you are back to a wreck again…. and have to go through the whole emotional stages again…grief, denial, acceptance etc. Its really a horrible experience. Anyone out there has gone to any support group? I am keen to join one to know that I am not alone in this journey. I need to maintain my sanity for the sake of my 6-year-old daughter. My ex is still staying at my matrimonial home that I am paying for for the last 7 years and he still refused to move out. The court is taking forever in the ancillary matters. But thank God it is finally coming to an end. I pray that the ancillary matters can be settled finally in late July during the court hearing and I can finally sell off my property and settle some of his debts that he left me with. I am now staying with my mum. I am currently unemployed …

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