Father of new-born ambivalent about his marriage and eventual single parenthood

Number of View: 196 Hi Gilbert, Thank you for asking and for the information on the forum. Unfortunately, I’m not able to join. Things are not doing well. Despite the great counselling, I personally has given up hope. I have surrendered that I made a wrong choice and it’s not possible to attain happiness in this marriage. For me, the divorce is inevitable. The relationship has been burdening me since the pregnancy and the last 5-6 months has been hard for me. She is not happy. I am not happy. We tried to work it out but we can’t. I know the consequences of going divorced and if I have to be single father. This is a biased statement but I truly believe my wife does not have the correct values to raising a kid. This is similar as how her parents have brought her up without the necessary values. And the lack of these values that driving us apart. I also doubt her commitment to raise a kid alone. It’s one thing to say it but it’s another thing to walk it through. The child custody is the only thing that burdens me now. I truly worry for my …

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