Jobless housewife with 2 teenage kids struggling with a impending divorce after 20 years of marriage

Number of View: 262 Dear Gilbert, Three years ago I came to almost joining your  support group. My marriage has been an unhappy one with alot of quarrel and arguments. We lived separately for three years now as my spouse is living oversea. Three years after trying really hard to save the marriage and drained all of my energy, eventually we decided to separate on December 2015. After 11 years working under my spouse’s company and for 6 years after that,  I have created my own business to support myself. Three years ago I decided to quit the job to handle our house hold and caring for our teenage children as my spouse lived abroad mostly. Currently I’m jobless and depending financially on my spouse. After 20 years of sharing our life together, the separation came as a shock. I’m still dealing with the grief while raising my two teenage daughters who are facing their own issues as well, from the missing father figure, school exam, life change. I’m 39 years old as my spouse is 50. My teenage daughters are 14 and 16. We are not leggaly separated however I feel that my children and I are neglected. Despite …

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