Suicide note of a divorced man facing child alienation and high maintenance pressure

Number of View: 284 The love that my daughter and I shared was truly special. She is a such a sweet, kind and gentle spirit. I am so sorry that I will not be there to see her grow into a beautiful woman. It absolutely crushed me to not be in her life over the last three years. I worked very hard as a father to build her confidence and self-esteem. She is smart, funny and considerate, but she didn’t know it yet. I pray that she realizes her strengths and her confidence in herself will continue to grow. I love you dearly, [name redacted]. My son [name redacted] was just entering Kindergarten, when I lost access to him. He is gregarious, outgoing and a great athlete. He is smart and fearless. He could have just as much fun by himself as he could with other kids. Even the older boys in our neighbourhood wanted to play with [name redacted]. It absolutely breaks my heart that I will not be able to help him grow into a man. I love you to, [name redacted]. I miss you both so much. My identity was taken from me, as result of this …

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Husband requesting assistance on how to woo back loveless spouse

Number of View: 264 Hi, Good day. I saw your blog while surfing on the internet and I wish that I can have someone to talk to about my marriage problems. I have been married for 11 years and I have two kids. Things have not been going well since my kids are born. My wife pay little or no attention to me. Honestly, I am partly to blame because I did not meet her expectations of helping her out with the kids and according to her, this is the reason that she has lost the feelings that she had for me. She used to be very loving and caring towards me but now she does not even talk much to me, only about the kids’ well-being and school stuff. Once, she told me that she places the kids first, follows by her parents and then career. If she has the time, then she may give me some of her attention. Every slight mistake I made now, she will kicks up a big fuss. I feel like a roommate to her. I tried to talk to her about our marriage and asks her if she still loves her but her …

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