PMET earns $1500/month but needs to pay $3001 to family after divorce

Number of View: 317 Hi Gilbert I stumbled about the steadymarriages website and is prompted to write to you about downward variation of maintenance, I am a PMET who is retrenched in June 2014. I am currently working as a Admin Officer at $1,500. My monthly maintenance to my ex-wife is $1 to herself and $1,000 each to my 3 children. (total $3,001) I pay $150 for advice to a lawyer about downward variation and was told my chances was slim. The lawyer mentioned that there is not much of a material change in my circumstance and my children should …

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Sociology undergraduate from single-parent family seeking assistance on post-divorce experiences of single parenting

Number of View: 338 Hi Mr Gilbert Goh, my name is Aubrey and I am a final-year student from a local university, studying sociology as my major. I want to apologise for such an abrupt and informal email because I am not a single-parent seeking for help. My main reason for dropping you this email is because I want to understand deeper about the divorce experiences and how divorcees cope with the transition to becoming single-parents when the divorces occurred. I am actually doing a graduation project on Single-parents and how they cope with the challenges as well as how …

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