Housewife contemplating filing divorce in a loveless marriage

Number of View: 448 Hi Gilbert, I would like to seek some advice on divorce. My story is a long one since I have been married 12 years now. I will try to summarize to the best of my ability. From the beginning, my marriage was ‘strange’. Husband doesn’t like sex. I tried to talk about it but only ends up quarrelling abt this issue. Over the years, I kinda gave up. Life went on and we focus on other things like work. As the issue was rather embarrassing, I didn’t confide in anyone except God. From time to time, I still try various ways to make things better but nothing worked. Husband says its not he didn’t love me, he just didn’t like sex. Sex is not important and at the end of his priority list. He made no effort to do anything abt it. I was not an unattractive woman and the attitude of my husband really hurt my feelings. I didn’t understand why. I am a Christian I didn’t think divorce was an option then. I tried asking him to go see doc, he did…once, that’s it. I suggested counseling, he rejected flatly. Years went by and …

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