Divorced French permanent resident facing parental alienation and high maintenance payment

Number of View: 308 Dear Gilbert, I would  appreciate some advice and direction on the following matter. I’m French, 29, PR since 2008 and recently divorced, as the final judgement is already out in November 2012. My ex wife is Malaysian and PR.I  do not have a lawyer to represent me  during the divorce proceeding  due to the high cost involvedI had a salary of $3.800 before CPF deduction and with a rental expense of 1.200 SGD and as  I’m renting a single room so it is not an expense that I can reduce further. However I agreed to pay …

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Signs of Spousal Infidelity

Number of View: 730Signs of Spousal Infidelity Some statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct and 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. If you have suspicions, consider some of the following and be as impartial as possible. Have you noticed a: Sudden increase in time away from home Decreased sexual interest with you Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming Cheating husband or wife is often “unavailable” while at work Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work and wants to go without you Cell phone calls …

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Can a Marital Separation Make Your Marriage Better?

Number of View: 375 Can a Marital Separation Make Your Marriage Better?       Taking a “Time-Out” Under the Right Circumstances Can Help Relationships Published on April 25, 2010 by Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W. in Contemplating Divorce There are three main reasons why couples separate: as a step in the divorce process, to gain perspective on the marriage and the third reason is the one I will focus on in this article –  to enhance the marriage. I am a big believer in the therapeutic value of a separation to strengthen the marriage if it’s done in the right way, for …

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Husband worried about getting another resale flat after divorce

Number of View: 661 Dear Mr Gilbert, I have been married for 8 years now and have no children. We are both 32 years old and about to  get a divorce. We have a 5-rppm flat bought from my parents at $270k. We are both paying for the house equally and have paid half of the property cost already. Currently its being valued at around $450k-$500k. My question is as my parents and younger brother  and sister are staying with us, I am worried that  I may not afford to buy a house after the divorce. I am also worried she will …

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Young housewife with two kids feeling trapped in a loveless marriage

Number of View: 1079  Hi there, I’m a housewife staying in Singapore now with a bad situation. I have no one to talk to and I’m feeling lost. I feels my life sucks. I can’t do anything and I’m so useless. Shame on me…    I use to be a very cheerful and positive thinking person and now living everyday to me is just like a zombie.   I am  even scared to face my husband. Sleeping in the same room and I’m afriad  to be close to him.   My heart is numb and I’m kind of lost now.Seven years ago, …

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