Married woman with 2 kids divorcing due to interference from husband’s family

Number of View: 362 Hi Gilbert, While googling, I chanced upon your blog, read some stories and got some information here and there. Thought it will be good  to ‘pour’ some sorrow out for therapeutic healing for myself. I knew my husband when I was 19, got married when I was 26  and now I am already 40. How time flies… I have a  simple household with 2 girls age 8 and 11 but we are happy. However, my husband and I  have been having alot of quarrels and issues over the last 2 decades and  whenever we quarrel he would bring up ‘divorce’ to shut me up. He claimed that this is a tactic that will make me ‘quiet’. Over time, I lost confidence in the marriage. I have always been extroverted and outspoken whereas he has been an  introvert and a very bad tempered person. Recently, my father in law passed away, leaving my aged mother in law staying with us. My husband is a frequent traveller for business, that leaves me alone with the 2 girls,  an aged mother in law and  a domestic helper. His 2 sisters who are full time housewives frequent my house daily to tend to their …

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