12 Ways to Get a Second Chance in Life

Number of View: 187 “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” -Maria Robinson We all need second chances.  This isn’t a perfect world.  We’re not perfect people.  I’m probably on my 1000th second chance right now and I’m not ashamed to admit it.  Because even though I’ve failed a lot, it means I’ve tried a lot too. We rarely get things right the first time.  Almost every major accomplishment in a person’s life starts with the decision to try again and again – to get up after every failed attempt and give it another shot. The only difference between an opportunity and an obstacle is attitude.  Getting a second chance in life is about giving yourself the opportunity to grow beyond your past failures.  It’s about positively adjusting your attitude toward future possibilities.  Here’s how: 1.  Let go of the past. What’s done is done.  When life throws us nasty curveballs it typically doesn’t make any sense to us, and our natural emotional reaction might be to get extremely upset and scream obscenities at the top of our lungs.  But how does this help our dilemma?  Obviously, it …

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Man Unsure If He is Baby’s Biological Father

Number of View: 585Good day to you Gilbert. I needed some advice from you urgently. I used to have a local female friend and we entered into a sexual relationship. Ours was not a boyfriend girlfriend type of relationship and we  both agreed that what we have done sexually is a mutual affair. We have never questioned each other’s private lives then. However, she got pregnant last year and told me I am the biological father. I only recounted once that we had unprotected sex and she was certain that I was the only one. She intends to keep the baby although we shared the same thoughts that we will not get married at all and she will take it upon herself to take care of the baby and be a single mum. However, she insisted that I pay her $3000/- to disclaim my liabilities of the child which I did. My mistake then was not putting this  into paper for her to sign and that it was a mutual agreement. I did suspect  that the child may not be mine at all but  things  turned sour over the money issue – which I told her was too much. However eventually, I …

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