“My husband has an affair!”

Number of View: 1088Hi Gilbert, I am 30 years old, a mother of 2  kids aged 5 and 7 years old. I am contemplating a divorce as my husband of 8 years had an affair. I found out about his affair through sms last July. It was an emotional affair that led to sexual intercourse at local hotels. Naive as I was, I thought everything will end when I found out. Which was what he promised, to stop communication with this gal. Apparently, it was not the case. He still went on lunch appointment with the girl, has a secret sim card to call from, and also sent her presents to her workplace. On other hand, he plays his part well at home. He comes home for dinner every weekday (he will take leave for dates), and full day with me and the kids on weekends. He dotes on us and brings us to posh restaurants to eat, splurge on my clothes and jewellery and branded bags. Of course  his full attention is not always on us, as he secretly glances his HP for msg and occassionally taking toilet breaks to reply her sms. This has been going on for about a …

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Why Every Year Thousands of Our Kids Do Not Celebrate Father’s Day With Their Dads

Number of View: 273Father’s Day came and passed away hurriedly yesterday – it was like any other normal day unlike Mother’s Day which is celebrated more like a special occasion. My 17-year-old daughter as usual didn’t wish me Happy Father’s Day and I must say that we don’t normally celebrate such occasions so I didn’t feel that bad really. Moreover, she is still currently studying in Sydney and I am hanging around in Singapore.  Thus,  the distance does play a crucial part in us not really being able to celebrate the occasion – even if we want to. On the other hand, I do miss her every day that I am not with her… Introduction Nevertheless, there will be many dads here who could not celebrate Father’s Day with their children even if both parties wanted to.  I learned about the   painful consequence of divorce when I started another website to handle the  clients  of our many broken marriages – its called parental alienation.  Children were alienated by their other parent when a marriage breaks down –  normally the father due to various reasons.  Sometimes it is intentional but very often it is instigated by their ex-spouses. Some estrangled wives …

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