Single mum happier after recent divorce

Number of View: 535We  have recently  received many emails from single parents seeking counselling assistance on  their personal issues. We are glad that Amy has granted us an online interview, allowing us a peer into the life of a recently-divorced single mother:- How long have you been married and any kids? Married in 1990 with  2 kids. What were the reasons for the divorce and how long ago was that? I have a spouse who drinks and gambles  and takes no responsibility in contributing to the family.  I have filed for divorce early  this year. You have told me that the …

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Recently separated dad distressed over visitation right for daughter

Number of View: 412Dear Gilbert, I am the one, Reluctantlyseparated, who posted the idea of a divorce support group in your website. My wife has already left the matrimonial home together with my young daughter. We have settled most of the assets, save for some small items but I have missed them very much. Informally, I have agreed to give her and my daughter a big monthly allowance in return for allowing me to  see my daughter once a week under her close supervision. She has not formalize our separation or made any steps towards divorce yet. I am very …

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“I need your advice on handling my teenage son while going through divorce”

Number of View: 297Hi  Gilbert, My name is John,  45 years of age and   currently going through divorce proceedings . We are still living under the same roof though. I have 3 children age 14 ( boy ) , 8 ( boy ) and 7 (girl) . I have very close relationship with my children and for years I have been taking them out every weekend  for  movies , dinner,  etc. Their mother hardly joins us for the family outing. My divorce proceeding started in 2009  and during this time, my 3 children are always with me.  Most nights,  they sleep …

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Divorced Malay woman concerned with ex-husband’s unhealthy access to daughter

Number of View: 413Hi Gilbert, I have two  issues on shared custody that I’d like to seek help with. Issue  1 :- I have been divorced for 7 years and have legal care of my seven year old daughter. Our marriage ended after he got abusive during a quarrel and I ended up in A&E with a broken hand and  a bruised face. The court allowed him access to our daughter on his off-days. He works shift  and she’s in childcare  everyday, so basically he gets her one day during the weekend if he’s not working. Otherwise, he asks for her …

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Jobless Aussie PR devastated after Singaporean wife left him for a richer man

Number of View: 292Dear Gilbert,  I never imagine that I could send you this email. I’m completely lost and I need your help. Here is my story:- I’m a Aussie PR since 2006. I met my girlfriend in March 2004. She’s a Singaporean Chinese and had a son born in 1994 from a previous marriage. We moved in together in 2005 and decided to have a baby. It took time and she got pregnant in 2007 and delivered in July 2008. We have a lovely boy, mix Aussie – Chinese and we are  a great blended family. We got married in April …

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Regular Physical Activity Significantly Reduces Depression Risk

Number of View: 223 From Medscape Medical News > Psychiatry Regular Physical Activity Significantly Reduces Depression Risk Deborah Brauser November 5, 2010 — Participating in regular leisure-time physical activities of any intensity can lead to a decrease in depression, new research suggests. In a large population study of more than 40,000 Norwegian residents, investigators found that those who were not active during their time away from work were almost twice as likely to have symptoms of depression that those who were regularly active. “Even relatively light activity was associated with significantly less depressive symptoms,” lead study author Samuel B. Harvey, …

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What makes men attractive to women

Number of View: 294 http://www.mademan.com/what-makes-men-attractive-women Related posts: Ten Things Women Forget to Do During Sex Ten Things Women Love About Men 14 Differences Between Japanese and Chinese Women (Chinasmack) Men, Women and Marriage: The Biggest Midlife Crisis (middleage.org) Top 10 cruel things women do to men (Asiaone 15 Dec) Divorce may hit men harder (The globe and mail) Jack Neo involved with 11 women (Asiaone 9 Mar) Support for men (Today 30 Mar) 15 Lies Men Tell Their Girlfriends (The Best Article) I enjoy regular webcam sex with other women (Asiaone Diva)

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Father wants to gain full custody of his children after divorce

Number of View: 1657 Hi Gilbert, I am in the final stage of my divorce, about a week away from my decree absolute. We have two children, a girl nine and a boy six. Both are staying with their mother at  the grandmother’s apartment whilst I stay elsewhere. I am Swiss and my ex wife is a Singaporean Malay. In mediation we agreed on joint custody and joint care and control. Now the kids’ mum suddenly dropped a bombshell that  she is starting a job as a airline stewardess  and she will be working away from home for most of …

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