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Hi Gilbert, I just happen to stumble into your site and read about Irene’s plight. I thank God [...]


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Random picture Dear Gilbert, My child is born out of wedlock but birth certificate has the natural [...]


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Dear Gilbert, Thank you for providing a website and forum for the divorcing and divorced. We need more [...]


Extra marital affair

Coping with Infidelity: How Do »

Coping with Infidelity: How Do Affairs Begin?

Introduction:The most commonly asked question I receive is about infidelity. That's because affairs are so common in marriage. You or your spouse are more [Read More]


Sexless Marriages

10 myths about sexless marriage 10 myths about sexless marriage »

Myths About Sexless Marriage Sexless couples rarely or never have sex. Some sexless [...]


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Reader's mail

Father suffers from child alienation and fights for sole custody of his two sons

Father suffers from child alienation and fights for sole custody of his two sons

Dear readers, I have a problem too. I am a Muslim. I have two kids. The eldest is a 8-year-old boy. He doesn’t t want to stay with the mother. Because he often gets beaten by her boyfriend’s mum. The custody for both kids is with the mum under sole custody. The longest period I was not able to see him was one year. My ex-wife stays [...]

42-year-old father applies for downward variation of maintenance and feeling stressed

42-year-old father applies for downward variation of maintenance and feeling stressed

Hi Gilbert I came across your website. I am a 42-year-old Singaporean. I lost my job in the year of 2014 October, I was earning about $5,300.00 then and able to pay my maintenance to my 8-year-child of about $2K to $2.2K. I started my business in 2014, it failed and was unable to pay my maintenance. I managed to land a  job with basic [...]

Polo patient seeking support over abusive relationship by husband from India

Polo patient seeking support over abusive relationship by husband from India

Peace be upon you Mr Goh, I am Siti (name changed) and a polio patient. I am writing to you as I need guidance and support to walk away from an abusive relationship for my 2 teenage kids whose studies are very affected by it. I got married to a man from India, not knowing that he is already married there with 2 children. His marital [...]

Woman married for 30 years seeking support over husband’s extra-marital affair

Woman married for 30 years seeking support over husband’s extra-marital affair

Hi Gilbert I have being married for more than 30 years. I forgave my husband’s first unfaithfulness incident as my kids were young then. Recently, I discovered for past 2 years that my retired husband has been meeting his married subordinate occasionally but sms almost daily, morning and afternoon till pass midnight with very lovy dovy [...]

Thoughts of a father going through a marital dissolution

Thoughts of a father going through a marital dissolution

I have been constantly reviewing the situation inside my head. We have to understand clearly that there are 2 human beings who have differing characters and the differences can't be bridged anymore. Yes, everything can only be solved by forgiving and giving in but at what cost? To realize the regret few years down the road? To a [...]

Taxi driver expressed unhappiness at miscellaneous billings by ex-wife after divorce

Taxi driver expressed unhappiness at miscellaneous billings by ex-wife after divorce

Hey Gilbert, I accidentally chance on your blog and I have a question about my divorce which I am very puzzled and decided to drop you an email to see if you have any advice for me. I was divorced two years back and was uncontested. I have 2 kids and court ruled $400 for kids' maintenance. Also I was asked to sign for agreeing to pay for [...]

Wife frustrated over irresponsible husband who has a alternative lifestyle

Wife frustrated over irresponsible husband who has a alternative lifestyle

Hi Gilbert It wasn't purely because of his past. Back then he wasn't providing financially for not a month or two but close to a year, job hop, didn't help me with the baby (baby was 4 months then) and always online with the gays either on msn or on gay chatrooms. He even went back to his parents place and lied compulsively that he was [...]

Woman legally married but never stay together with husband

Woman legally married but never stay together with husband

Hi Gilbert, How does a woman cope after a divorce? I have been legally married and had my customary marriage but my husband has never wanted to live together with me. Due to some misunderstandings on his birthday and our wedding anniversary, we stop talking all of  a sudden. I tried to ask him for reunion dinner but he rejected. I was [...]

Man’s horrible experience with China ex-wife regarding child access

Man’s horrible experience with China ex-wife regarding child access

Hi Gilbert Thank you for reply. I'm  married to a Chinese woman who took Singapore citizenship about 10 years ago. When our daughter was born in 2011 my wife insists her parents from China to help us with the child raising. However they didn't speak English and I couldn't speak Mandarin. Things where good until they start to get very [...]

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