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Woman feared for her family’s safety due to a abusive husband

Woman feared for her family’s safety due to a abusive husband

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Woman feared for her family’s safety due to a abusive husband Woman feared for her family’s safety due to a abusive »

Dear Gilbert, Thank you for providing a website and forum for the divorcing and divorced. We need more [...]


Father suffers from child alienation and fights for sole custody of his two sons Father suffers from child alienation and fights for sole custody »

Dear readers, I have a problem too. I am a Muslim. I have two kids. The eldest is a 8-year-old boy. [...]


42-year-old father applies for downward variation of maintenance and feeling stressed 42-year-old father applies for downward variation of maintenance »

Hi Gilbert I came across your website. I am a 42-year-old Singaporean. I lost my job in the year of [...]


Extra marital affair

Coping with Infidelity: How Do »

Coping with Infidelity: How Do Affairs Begin?

Introduction:The most commonly asked question I receive is about infidelity. That's because affairs are so common in marriage. You or your spouse are more [Read More]


Sexless Marriages

10 myths about sexless marriage 10 myths about sexless marriage »

Myths About Sexless Marriage Sexless couples rarely or never have sex. Some sexless [...]


Welcome to the new Singapore – public nudity Welcome to the new Singapore – »

The recent surge of nudity, streaking and promiscuity, signs of a more liberal [...]


Sexless Marriages Sexless Marriages »

Intimacy & Sex Dr. Laura Berman Did you know that nearly one in five [...]


Reader's mail

Woman married for 30 years seeking support over husband’s extra-marital affair

Woman married for 30 years seeking support over husband’s extra-marital affair

Hi Gilbert I have being married for more than 30 years. I forgave my husband’s first unfaithfulness incident as my kids were young then. Recently, I discovered for past 2 years that my retired husband has been meeting his married subordinate occasionally but sms almost daily, morning and afternoon till pass midnight with very lovy dovy [...]

Thoughts of a father going through a marital dissolution

Thoughts of a father going through a marital dissolution

I have been constantly reviewing the situation inside my head. We have to understand clearly that there are 2 human beings who have differing characters and the differences can't be bridged anymore. Yes, everything can only be solved by forgiving and giving in but at what cost? To realize the regret few years down the road? To a [...]

Taxi driver expressed unhappiness at miscellaneous billings by ex-wife after divorce

Taxi driver expressed unhappiness at miscellaneous billings by ex-wife after divorce

Hey Gilbert, I accidentally chance on your blog and I have a question about my divorce which I am very puzzled and decided to drop you an email to see if you have any advice for me. I was divorced two years back and was uncontested. I have 2 kids and court ruled $400 for kids' maintenance. Also I was asked to sign for agreeing to pay for [...]

Wife frustrated over irresponsible husband who has a alternative lifestyle

Wife frustrated over irresponsible husband who has a alternative lifestyle

Hi Gilbert It wasn't purely because of his past. Back then he wasn't providing financially for not a month or two but close to a year, job hop, didn't help me with the baby (baby was 4 months then) and always online with the gays either on msn or on gay chatrooms. He even went back to his parents place and lied compulsively that he was [...]

Woman legally married but never stay together with husband

Woman legally married but never stay together with husband

Hi Gilbert, How does a woman cope after a divorce? I have been legally married and had my customary marriage but my husband has never wanted to live together with me. Due to some misunderstandings on his birthday and our wedding anniversary, we stop talking all of  a sudden. I tried to ask him for reunion dinner but he rejected. I was [...]

Man’s horrible experience with China ex-wife regarding child access

Man’s horrible experience with China ex-wife regarding child access

Hi Gilbert Thank you for reply. I'm  married to a Chinese woman who took Singapore citizenship about 10 years ago. When our daughter was born in 2011 my wife insists her parents from China to help us with the child raising. However they didn't speak English and I couldn't speak Mandarin. Things where good until they start to get very [...]

Woman concerned about gay ex-husband’s access to their only son

Woman concerned about gay ex-husband’s access to their only son

Hi Gilbert When my baby was 4 months old, my ex husband would spend a lot of time on his personal laptop. He always said he needed time for himself. He would stay up late and wake up late. He was also a compulsive liar and hardly help me with the baby. Sometimes he would even lie that he was working late and staying overnight at his office [...]

Wife depressed over husband’s behavour after contracting illness

Wife depressed over husband’s behavour after contracting illness

Dear Gilbert My husband and I recently married and unfortunately we are already considering divorce. I'm unsure if we're eligible to file for a divorce but here's the gist of our story and I seek and would greatly appreciate your invaluable advice. It hasn't been easy. He was diagnosed with a illness recently. Albeit shocking, I willingly [...]

Father worries about bonding with son after divorce

Father worries about bonding with son after divorce

Dear Gilbert I chanced upon your website when I was searching online for help for my situation. My marriage is on the rocks since perhaps 4 years ago and despite what I feel as best efforts on my part, yesterday my wife says with renewed determination she wants a divorce. The strongest reason why I have avoided the path of [...]

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